Thursday, December 9, 2010

Thoughts on Advent

For a few weeks now I have been thinking about Advent. It is probably my very favorite time of the year. I thrive on schedules and since I didn't grow up in a church or denomination that is particularly liturgical, I have found great comfort in the rhythm of liturgy and the church calendar in the past few years. I love the longing and anticipation of Advent and Lent. During Advent, we remember a time when the world was groaning for a Savior, the one who had been promised for so many years. During Lent, we wait, knowing that the celebration of the most miraculous event in human history is coming, like a huge burst of sunshine after so many days of dark, gloomy rain.

I had been planning to do a great blog post about Advent. I think most of my life I have mistaken Advent and Christmas for the celebration of Jesus the baby. And it is; Jesus left his throne above to step into a dark and hurting world. He chose to do so as a baby. A helpless baby, probably not unlike the three little boys I have had the privilege of caring for. But Advent and Christmas are so much more than that because Jesus is so much more than that. He started there, but that is not where his power lies. It's easy to think of him as a baby and be happy about the baby Jesus. That's because baby Jesus isn't dangerous. Baby Jesus looks so warm and snuggly there in the manger as opposed to unimaginable pain we see Him suffer on the cross. Baby Jesus isn't dangerous because He doesn't ask us to do things that are dangerous. Baby Jesus doesn't ask us to take up our crosses; the risen Savior does.

Anyway, back to my point. I'd been planning to write about Advent myself. But I had too much to say and not enough time to sit down and say it. So, here are the four points upon which I had planned to expound:

1. Advent is the beginning of the road that ends at Easter.
2. In Advent we remember God's fulfillment of His promises of the past and that He will continue to fulfill his promises. He promised to send a Savior and we can celebrate because that Savior was born a baby in Bethlehem.
3. Advent calls us to examine who Jesus is.
4. Advent puts us in a season of waiting; waiting for Jesus in the immediate--the savior promised to Israel, and reminding us that we are still waiting for Jesus's return.

But I'm not going to because I read someone else's words that are much better than my own. (You can find the original here. I found the section "Advent Themes" to be the most interesting.)

Advent and the Church Year

by Paul Hahn

As another calendar year draws to a close, a new church year is just beginning. The church year is a system that began to be established by bits and pieces in the early centuries after Christ’s death and resurrection, allowing the church to mark time in a redemptive way. The church year keeps the themes of our worship, and thus the themes of our lives, centered in the celebration of the life and work of Jesus. Like the Gospel narratives, the Christian calendar keeps announcing to us the good news about Jesus and his kingdom, week after week, throughout the year. And like the Gospels, the church year calls us to climb into the story of Jesus, to lose ourselves in that story, and so truly to begin to find ourselves.

There are two great cycles within the church year: a Christmas cycle that moves from Advent and Christmas to Epiphany, a season which celebrates the events of Jesus’ early public ministry, concluding with his Transfiguration; and an Easter cycle that moves from Lent, with its focus on Christ’s resolute commitment to go to Jerusalem and the cross, through Holy Week, with Christ’s passion and crucifixion, on into Easter with the joyful celebration of his resurrection, followed by Pentecost and the coming of the Holy Spirit, his Spirit, through whom he gives the church explosive growth throughout the world.

ADVENT THEMES
The season of Advent starts the new church year. Though its beginnings are hidden in the early centuries of church history, we do know that Advent originated as a time of preparation for the celebrations of Christmas and Epiphany (much like Lent is a time of preparation for Easter and Pentecost). Advent means “coming”; it is a four week period in which the church remembers Jesus’ first coming and looks forward to his coming again. Advent reminds us that we live between the times of Christ’s first and second comings and that we must live by faith in Christ and as faithful stewards of the grace he has entrusted to us as we wait for his return. Just as John the Baptist was born to prepare the way for Jesus’ first coming, so we are given to each other in the community of the church to encourage each other and challenge the world around us to prepare for his coming again.

The mood of Advent is that of longing, of expectation, and of waiting. Advent is a time when we yearn for Jesus to come back, to completely make all things new as the returning King. The cry of Advent is the cry of those who have experienced the tyranny of injustice in a world under the curse of sin, and yet who have hope of deliverance from a God who hears the cries of the oppressed and who brings them deliverance.
Of course, as the Old Testament prophets remind us, there is the problem of longing for vindication from an evil world when we are contributors to that evil! And so, as a season of preparation, Advent is a time to repent and believe: to turn away from the false hopes and drives that capture our hearts and define our lives and twist us so much that we end up using and oppressing others, and to turn toward Jesus, who frees us from slavery to our idols in order that we may serve one another in hope and love as we await his return.

ADVENT COLOR
Purple is the traditional Advent color, the color of royalty, the color that reminds us that we live to welcome back again our King upon his return. The purple of Advent is also the color of suffering used during Lent and Holy Week. The church has used this color coordination to connect Jesus’ birth with his cross, his reign as king with his sacrificial crucifixion. This color scheme helps us to remember that as we approach the baby in the manger we must remember the full grown man on the cross, a man who is also fully God, the King who uses the cross as his victory chariot over the forces of death and evil.

ADVENT WREATH AND CANDLES
The Advent wreath is a relatively new tradition, but an increasingly popular one, that prepares us for the celebration of Christmas. The Advent wreath and candles are a great way to pull young children into the season and make it come alive for them.

The circle of the wreath reminds us of God himself, of his eternity and endless mercy. The green of the wreath speaks of the hope that we have in God, the hope of newness, of renewal, of eternal life. The candles associated with the wreath symbolize the light of God coming into the world through the birth of his Son. The four outer candles represent the period of waiting during the four Sundays of Advent, which themselves symbolize the four centuries of waiting between the prophet Malachi and the birth of Christ. The fifth candle, placed in the center of the wreath and lit on Christmas Eve, is the Christ candle, reminding us that all is not preparation; he really did come and he really will come again. The colors of the candles vary with different traditions, but there are usually three purple candles and one pink candle around the wreath, with the white Christ candle in the center, reminding us that Christ is at the center of all things and in him all things hold together. The third candle is traditionally pink, symbolizing our joy at the coming of Christ.

ENTER IN
So Advent is all about entering into the story of the gospel in new and deep ways, remembering Christ’s faithfulness, clinging to his promises, turning from sin, and yearning for his return. Enjoy the season. May Christ come and meet you as you live between the times. Amen.

Monday, December 6, 2010

Dragon Slayer

"I wasn't showing my face because REAL knights, the ones that fighted REAL dragons, looked like that when they were fighting. They put their masks over their eyes when they were fighting dragons. See this (his left hand)? This is a spear. They would like PUNCH and POKE in the dragons when they were fighting dragons. They punched in the big parts of their bodies, not the little parts of their bodies. My shield (his right hand)--real knights put it on their hands when they were fighting dragons. My boots help me so that the dragons don't bite my feet. Those boots make it so that they don't bite my feet because if I wear my other shoes that aren't the boots they would know how to rip down in my shoes and socks and then they would be ruined and then they could bite my feet so that's why I wear my boots."

Yes, he made his own spear and shield out of tape. You'd think we don't buy the boy any toys.

And how could I resist adding a picture of this cutie???

Saturday, November 27, 2010

First gifts of Christmas

Last year we started what I hope will be an annual tradition at Christmas: giving each boy a Christmas ornament that represents that year. Last year Nathan got an elephant because they were still his favorite animal and Isaac got a car because he was beginning to show an interest in them.



This year, as I'm sure you guessed already, they got DINOSAURS! Nathan is obsessed with dinosaurs and Isaac loves everything Nathan does. If you can't tell, they even have on dino t-shirts.

Nathan's is a T-Rex, Isaac's is a Stegosaurus, and Toby's is a Triceratops (because he doesn't seem to have any opinions yet). Thank you, World Market, for having dinosaur Christmas ornaments. I definitely wasn't sure I'd find them anywhere!

A couple of random things.

Toby is kind of obsessed with the TV. It's not on much in our house (though more during the fall because Jimmy and I love football), but when it's on he will do whatever necessary to see it.

And lookey here at this totally unwelcome guest. I'm not even 30 yet. Ugh. (Jimmy asks, "So, does stress really make you get gray hair or is that just an old wives' tale?" I don't know the answer.)

Friday, November 26, 2010

Thanksgiving

We had a wonderful Thanksgiving! How about you? This year we hosted for the second time in our lives (and I've still never done the turkey!) and it turned out really well. We had 18 people crammed into our little apartment but it worked fabulously. Our guests of honor were a family of Iraqi refugees that Jimmy has gotten to know over the past several months (unfortunately only two of their four children were able to come). We also had three other families from our neighborhood join us. The four seminary families were in charge of all of the food and someone commented on how it was all done really well. Our Iraqi guests seemed to like most of it--they got a great introduction to American Thanksgiving!

People, this is the way to do mashed potatoes. 10 lbs of potatoes + four sticks of butter + 2 packages of cream cheese + salt & pepper = a heart attack named YUMMY!


My first Thanksgiving with snow.

The tables are set!

Rafik and his amazing turkey.


Everyone loves Toby :)






We're pretty sure a good time was had by all!

Saturday, November 20, 2010

Toby is 6 months, Nathan is a cowboy

Our sweet little Toby is 6 months old! How did that happen?!?! I think with each child, time flies more and more quickly. Before you know it I'll have grandchildren (my mother assures me that I'll blink and be a grandmother). Anyway, here are some fun facts about The Tobster:

*27 inches, 18.7 pounds (hovering around the 50th% in both)
*sleeps 13 hours a night (not straight through)
*takes two naps, usually 2-3 hours each
*no teeth....yet!
*rolls both ways and can move pretty quickly
*loves putting everything in his mouth
*prefers his fingers over a paci
*very laid-back
*quick to smile and laugh, but doesn't talk unless it's pretty quiet
*enjoys when his big brothers entertain him
*almost sitting
*still on an all-milk diet...but we plan to start solids soon!

Speaking of solids, here are some pictures of his first taste of anything other than milk. I had some extra butternut squash from a recipe so I decided to steam and puree it. As you will be able to tell from the pictures, I would not say Toby has asked for it again.

He's all smiles because he hasn't tried it yet.




Oh well, it was still fun to see him try it. I guess we should get on with it, though, and feed him more solids :)

Here are some sibling pictures from Toby's six-month photo shoot. It only took a million tries to get the first picture (which, in all honesty, isn't the best).



I mentioned Toby is laid-back, right? As long as he's got those fingers in his mouth, nothing his big brothers can do will phase him.






Have you noticed a theme in these last few pictures, which were taken on different days? Nathan LOVES costumes. Right now he's obsessed with this cowboy costume. Don't tell him, but my mom is getting him cowboy boots for Christmas :)

Friday, November 19, 2010

Christmas is just around the corner!

Can you believe it? It's already November 19 and Christmas will be here before you know it. No matter how far in advance I start thinking about it and getting excited about it, Christmas always creeps up on me and I find that I haven't bought the presents as early as I wanted and I haven't created the Christmas cards I wanted to. One year we just sent out update cards in July because I knew if I had a deadline (Christmas) I just wouldn't make the deadline.

Well, this year things are going to change. We have already taken the pictures I intend to use for the Christmas cards and I'll be ordering them from Shutterfly. We have used Shutterfly in the past to print the previously mentioned July moving cards, calendars, and photo books. I really love the photo books because as much as I would love to be someone who scrapbooks, it's just not going to happen. Plus it's easier than printing out a bajillion pictures and hand-writing captions to all of them (though I have done that, too, and enjoy those kinds of albums!). Oh, and we've also used Shutterfly for just straight up printing pictures for ourselves and relatives. One of the things I liked about that by each picture you can type what you want on the back for a caption.

Here are a couple of the photo cards I like. You can tell me which one you like most and I'll take that into consideration when making my choice :)





OK, I got a little overwhelmed looking at the choices. There are a ton I like and I thought I was settled on a one-photo picture but now I don't know. Oh well, good thing it's only 11/19, huh?

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

The Tobster

My littlest baby is going to be six months old tomorrow! Where in the world has time time gone? I think having him at the beginning of a busy, travel-filled summer made the time go by even more quickly than normal, but I also think that the saying is true, time flies when you're having fun! And we're having so much fun right now. :) Tomorrow I'll post some six-month pictures and a picture of him eating his first non-milk food (which he did last night and let's just say it wasn't a great hit). But for now, here are the last six months in photos.













Sunday, November 14, 2010

At home this fall

Well we've had a great fall. We have been busy but thankfully we've been going at a pace that, for the most part, feels sustainable. I think it will be easier to tell you what's going on by telling you about each of us individually!

Jimmy: Jimmy is still going strong at Covenant. We're in the third year of four. (Unfortunately, many of our close friends are in their third year of three. I try not to think about May 2011....) Anyway, he's also teaching the GMAT with Manhattan GMAT. The company has really been a Godsend. When I was facing the end of last school year and had the desire to stay home full-time this year, we just weren't sure where we'd make up the income I was bringing in. Jimmy found MGMAT and he's been able to make more teaching the GMAT than I was last year so that's been really wonderful. We are going to the early service at church and he's kind of heading up the Sunday school during that first service.

Suzanne: I am really enjoying being home full-time this year. There are some things about it that are more difficult than working (like I get to stare at my to-do list all day and realize that really nothing is getting marked off...). Overall, though, I've loved the opportunity to spend more time with Isaac. Because I'm not working, I get to have one-on-one time with both Nathan and Isaac every day which has proved to be very rewarding. I'm also teaching Sunday school at church. We attend the first service and I stay for the second service and teach Sunday school (it happens during the sermon). Isaac, Toby, and I are going to Community Bible Study on Wednesdays and that's been great, especially for Isaac. They have a wonderful children's program!

Nathan: Nathan is still going to preschool every morning for about 3.5 hours each day. He loves it! He has some very cute little friends at school. He loves going to the art center, writing, mail (where they make mail for each other) and sometimes house. Nathan is really learning a lot at school this year! He's also gotten very excited about art projects. He's constantly writing (he can write words if we spell them for him!), drawing--especially dinosaurs, and cutting. We usually have very small cut-up scraps of paper all over the floor and I have to remind myself that cutting is very good for his fine-motor skills. :)

Isaac: Isaac is just plugging right along! He's a great big brother to Toby and he loves to do everything Nathan does. In the morning we often have the following conversation:
Isaac: Is Nathan at school?
Me: Yes
Isaac: But I wove (love) him! (Which I think translates to "I miss him!")
Isaac also loves cutting and is developing some great fine-motor skills earlier than Nathan. He's very outgoing when we're at home, but I can tell that he's more introverted than the rest of us. He's usually quiet in bigger, more unfamiliar groups, but he definitely still loves his CBS class!

Toby: Toby is the sweetest, cutest baby! He's got wonderful dimples and he's getting more and more personality every day. He is such an easy baby and Jimmy and I feel so overwhelmed by the way God has blessed us. He loves his big brothers and it's so fun to watch them play with him. I am excited to continue watching them grow up to love each other dearly (well, most of the time!).

Here are some pictures from our fall. We haven't done too many super-exciting things because we're home a lot since Toby naps so much, but we've really enjoyed just playing with our neighbors!

GranGran came to visit in October and we spent one morning making cookies!

The boys and some neighbors on Halloween.

Our boys and a sweet neighbor friend.


Isaac and mommy close-up.

Buddies. They get very excited about calling themselves "buddies." :)



Aah! The cuteness is overwhelming!!